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Submitted by Really Fed Up on Fri, 02/08/2013 - 6:15pm

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I wish there was a meetup group for this. We can meet to chill, to vent, to hang out, etc. Just like someone posted, if you're not an SM with skids from hell, you would never understand. It's not as fun to vent to my friends and family who are "happily" married and don't have to deal with blended family issues.

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Submitted by oldone on Fri, 02/08/2013 - 9:14pm

I have had friends with skid issues for years and year. While I sympathised with them I never truly understood the hatred and malice until I lived it.

My SS does not hate me but his mother does.

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Submitted by Janna on Fri, 02/08/2013 - 10:04pm

My ss's bm has never said a word to me, when his dad us working and I take him to drop him off I always say "Hi, how ya doing", I guess after 5 years I should just give up. She looks right by me....it used to get under my skin, now I just find it funny. My x husband has remarried and his new wife and I are not best friends, but if another women is going to be spending time with my children in their dads house, you bet I am going to know who and what she us about, I dobt get it

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Submitted by Janna on Sat, 02/09/2013 - 8:02am

I am right there with you. And ymy ss's bm hates me just becayse I love her son??? I dont understand it. Like I said I am also the bm of children who have a stepmom and I am greatful that they have her, my feeling is the more ppl that love and support my children, the better they will be.

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Submitted by uptohere on Sat, 02/09/2013 - 2:57pm

OMG ^^^^^THIS^^^^^^
You're right!
I never could verbalize so succinctly what was so horrible about the whole SM thing. I was used to people liking me, or if they didn't like me, they just didn't care about me one way or the other. But the HATE that comes your way is a shock.

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Submitted by Janna on Sat, 02/09/2013 - 5:25pm

What is ur theroy for the hate? I guess it is just for amusement that I ask bc it wont make a difference...do u think it is the bm trying to make you look bad bc she doesnt want the s child to love you more, do you think it is jealousy that you have her x husband, do you think she us just a miserable person....just wondering you opinion. My ss has questioned me on y his mom wont talk to me and I tell him to ask her or I tell him idk. I wish I did no the answer, maybe some day ill ask her...that will go over like a led weight, lol