This past weekend, SD brought her ipod with a truth or dare game downloaded. She asked SS to play it with her early Sun. am. When she got home, Sun. night, she told her mom that my SS dared her to kiss him. From what I can tell the game gave you 3 dares to choose from, one being a kiss, which my SS changed to "on the arm" - something SD "forgot" to tell.

This is about the 5-6 time SD has not told her dad (or me) about something that happened at our house, instead waiting to tell BM. Most of these were minor instances: name calling, or not sharing. SS has been punished/reprimanded accordingly.

This time, I want to delay punishment until Wednesday (we have SD over Thanksgiving) and punish both kids - as they are equally guilty.

I've asked DH to not to have SD delete the game from her ipod until we (I) get a chance to look at it.