Is this a SP's place?
SD8 is having some issues and DH and I have discussed taking her to see a councilor. DH has talked to BM and she is okay if SD goes to counseling 'as long as she doesn't think there is anything wrong with her’ (BM words)
I have called and received the names and numbers of several councilors, and called and spoke via phone with one about a few of the issues. DH and I both think it would be a great thing for her to go. I am completely on board with this. DH calls me and asks me to make an appointment. I said I would…with hesitation. I have since called DH and told him I didn't want to make the appointment because I'm not sure it’s my place.
I realize this is a small thing but I am concerned that I have put pressure on seeing a councilor and that I will receive some backlash to this. I have never before made any other doctor or dentist appointments for SK. Keep in mind that this would be no problem if it were for me, my husband, or our bio's. Am I weird for hesitating with doing certain things for SK's?
I don't do much of the stuff
I don't do much of the stuff for SS12, but I have no problem with small stuff like this. Just don't talk much, just make it about the scheduling and it will be fine.
Give your husband all of the
Give your husband all of the information you've found and let him make the appointment.
I make chiro appts for the
I make chiro appts for the skids because I'm the one that takes them. BM said she wants nothing to do with it and DH doesn't care if I do it. BM makes almost all the other appts because she usually takes them or she at least knows their schedules well enough that she can know if there are other things going on. It's a lot of communication too because she always tells me when the appts are as soon as she makes them, just in case me or DH can go.