I guess she was afraid my DS and I were having a nice calm morning together while DH worked. She calls and starts pissing and moaning about the Jerry Springer epidsode that is BM and SD(3). I have told MIL repeatedly I do NOT want to hear about it, but she just keeps right on blabbing about how "traumatized" SD is bc BM won't bring her over to see them and that DH won't go to court and drop thousands for custody. BM also filed a false restraining order when they broke up, it was automatically granted bc DH didn't show up for court to contest it bc he could've cared less if he ever saw the woman again anyway, but now MIL says he should get BM's number and try to call her anyway bc SD is more important than the law apparently, even tho that is still in effect and if BM is in the right mood she could easily get him arrested for violating the no contact order :? She then launches into a tirade abt how SD needs to know who my son is and that it's ridiculous that he is almost 2mths old and still has never seen her. Yes I'm sure that is tearing up a 3yr old who doesn't understand at all and a 2 mth old who has absolutely zero comprehension. How about you mind your own freaking business!? He's mine and DH's son, if we don't want her around a kid who hits, and kicks without warning for no reason I think thats our call and not yours.

I was really hoping that when our son was born it would take some of the obsession off of SD, but apparently not. When she was born they bought SO much stuff for her it was ridiculous, they have bought a couple outfits for DS and that's been it, I really don't want anything from them but it's more about principle at this point. During this 30 minute bitch fest MIL went off on she only paused to ask about my son once, and then she just said "what's he doing" umm HE has a name. Then she went right back to talking about "her baby".

vent over.