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SD Normal behavior or something way more

nobios3steps's picture

My Sd's have issues with being abused, one is better than the other, I guess they deal with it differently.

But, the one younger step daughter I think has more going on. I have read about a few disorders and she is "Classic" symptons of mental disorder due to the abuse.

She acts out, started doing bad in school, tells everyone no, does not listen at all, but the most thing I am worried about is she "Hears things" that no one says. She will go all out and say a converstation that no one ever had.

We are looking into more treatment for her, it is sad, and I do not think her mom is helping her out any by adding in more and more lies every time she sees them.

It is sad, but working on my nerves cause I seem to be the attack. If he dad tells her no, she asks me and I tell her don't ask me cause your dad just told you, then she yells at me saying well it is because you told him to say that.

I think is it normal for kids to lie, but she is lying on me so much Im afraid of the next thing that will come out of her mouth.

nobios3steps's picture

Thanks this makes alot of sense to me, one day she acts horrible the next day she is my best friend. I can't imagine what goes thru her head.

I know she knows deep down what kind of mother she has, she even said after Mom knew what went on she still didnt watch me so he could do it again and started crying. (they were given back by the courts cause the mom said she would make sure nothing happened again, but it did cause she didn't keep them away from the abuser)