10 years... It's been 10 years since I met SD who was 16 at the time. From day one she wanted me gone and I was foolish enough to stay. I shoud have left when the problems first arosed but I loved DH and after he grew a pair  and laid down the law with SD, I  was dumb enough to think things would change. NOPE!

Lesson learned, If you say "no" to her, she'll find another way to get what she wants.SS has always been the golden child. Everyone knows SS geniuely loves DH. He's his dad pride and joy. DH stood up to SD but could never with SS. All SS wanted to have relationship with both DH and SD but because of me that wasn't possible.

 She has worked her magic over DH, apparently I was the problem. I never opened myself up to her, hated her from the moment I saw her. it was my "mission" to try and take her dad away from her. I'm the manipulative one

I guess DH forgot how she treated me over the years. When I was pregnant, I was in a pretty bad car crash and had a miscarriage; she was thrilled. The lies she told about me. She even tried to stop our wedding. I banned her from our home because of all of this but I never stopped DH from seeing his daughter. He can have whatever realationship he wants with her without including me. She's getting married in June and I wasn't invited. Initally DH wasn't going to attending without me (I encouraged him to do) but SS came and with a few tears from him, he managed to change his mind (making me look like the bad guy). 

Well she's started coming to visit the house without my knowledge. My boundaries weren't being respected. DH was telling me that I was being childish and need to get over the past. Apparently I'm sitring up problems. DH had enough....of me. Guess I was the root of all of the problems. I was trying to drive a wedge between him and SD. Because SD is a doctor and getting married, she can do no wrong. He's seen the "light". 

Our marriage is over.

Congrats SD; you've won