:? k... I have a step son who does nothing all day but lay on his back side playing games. while i know this is normal its also annoying. when hes told to clean his room he goes to a friends house for a couple days while we are gone to work. he calls the other 2 teenage girls here (1 is my daughter the other my step daughter) wh***s,sl**s. bi****s etc. My husband wont say anything to them but 1 of the girls called him gay & my husband flipped retarded! Then after everything i do for this boy (i give him rides back & forth to friends that dont even live a quarter mile away, give him $ for doing nothing, cook dinner every nite, take him & his 2 friends on camping trips, buy the food, pick them up etc....)so when he was told to weedeat the yard (believe me i would buy a goat to do it but the goat would starve!) the yard is REAL small so he left for 3 days. he came back 1 day then as he was leaving he said "tell dad to put the weedeater on the porch & have it ready for me. I will be back at 6 & i will weedeat. At 8 pm he comes through the door and i ask him (nicely) why werent you here at 6 like you aid you wer? he said "why you being a big b?" i damn near smacked him in his mouth! but instead him and my husband got into a shouting fight. Needless to say the boy has never apologized! his dad has never made him this boy still asks to use my phone and wants to ride in my car and i dont want him to do it! how can i make this stop???? my husband and i argue over this often! how do i make it stop??????