Today my mil came over to visit, she's retired. It was a beautiful day but when she went home she called us to come by and listen to her answering machine, said it was a lawyer for DH. When we get there the message said his ex wife's name she carries now. I said to her what the hell does that have to do with my husband and she needs to call that lawyer back and tell them that woman hasn't been her daughter n law in 10 years. Dh thought maybe it was a bill they once had together years ago. I said I been with him the last 6 to 7 years and I'm sure statue of limitations would have ran out on that, besides, I check his credit report twice a year. Mil said she was afraid we may get sued because the layer said on there that his ex had till 7pm to call them. So I said fine and we get the number. I then texted his ex wife BM to dh kid and say she needs to have her bill collectors to stop calling his mother. BM texts back and says oh crap that she had already talked to them bill collectors and she didn't k ow how they got that number. So, evidentially she is having some creditors calling my mil and my mil is trying to stir the pot as if we are somehow responsible for his ex wife's problems. Then after that cluster my FiL visits..he's remarried and retired as well. He gets to talking about my garden and my citrus trees that I've been successful on and he hasn't on his own. He starts telling me that BM grandfather which was a nursery owner told him how to grow. I finally lost it and said if I had to hear about dh x and her family that I was going to puke. Dh says his parents can't stand his ex but from the way they constantly brings her up and her family tells me otherwise. Are they both trying to stir me up because dh doesn't jump to their will on his off days?