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Bm did it again.

cantmissamy's picture

Well bm did it again. Got a call today from a bill collector and fdh lied and said he did not know her phone number or where she is at. Yes my dear friends another warning sign that says dont get married here. How I so want to call them back and give them all the information that they want, but am minding my own business here unless by some off chance they call and ask for her then I will gladly give them her phone number and addy. I hate to sound like such a bitch here, but this is a bill that I know dfh will end up paying and right now with the our bills and the holidays we can not afford to shell out an extra 600 that is not even our responsibility. I have expressed my concerns to fdh about this and have told him flat out I am not getting married because his bill will become my bills and I refuse to support the dbm.

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Pantera's picture

I told my DH before we got married that if he didn't tell the bill collectors where she was, I would. I didn't think it was fair that they would call my house asking for DH's ex wife! He did end up telling them her info and they did stop calling, but at first, he just didn't want to be a jerk, ex wife didn't even know they were calling.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

hangingin's picture

One time about a year ago a collection agency called asking for the EX!!(under her current married name), Now HD and I have been married 13 years!! I told them that MY number has never been associated with HER, I asked how they got my number? (She had given out MY NUMBER as her contact number, gave the WRONG town where she lives, right address, wrong town ect…) She is truly STUPID for thinking I will not give her up; I have her Social Security number, Driver’s License number, her REAL ADDRESS, EVERYTHING about HER written down.
Sooo, for good measure, I gave them her HUSBAND’S work info, PARENTS info, SISTER’S info, GRANDMOTHER’S info. Everyone in HER FAMILY that she does not WANT to know how screwed up she is…. (I figure HER FAMILY can get the collection agency phone calls and aggravation as well as me...)

I had warned her ONCE, DO NOT MESS WITH ME! This just proves how
YOU CANNOT REASON WITH STUPID!!!

hangingin

stepmom2one's picture

If I answered the phone I would give them the info and tell them to not call your home again.

buttercup123's picture

Good for you. I wouldn't pay that crap either!!!! BUT I would give them her address. She needs to be responsible for her own crap and grow up. Why should you guys be dealing with those calls?