My Husband's Children are RACIST on me
I come to America two year ago and my husband children are very racism at me. It hurt my feeling
I want hide every time they come for weekend. They talk down at me like dog or servant when husband not home. But they fake nice when he here and he say I just make believe in my head that not understand America teenage. I am not stupid. I know when child is mean.
They make the fun of me all the time. I go to cook and they say I make fried cats. I no fry cats! That's disrespect at me. They say hide the dog before Thao cooks. Its not funny. It hurts.
His ex wife leave rice in my mailbox. She not a good woman.
My husband lie to me. He say we live by the beach if I marry him. There no ocean in Idaho. I still but love him. I no want to go.
How i make these children not be so mean and make husband see this is not good way to treat father wife?
Thank you. Thank you so much.
Thank you. You are a good
Thank you. You are a good woman. And you have wisdom. Thank you for write me.
I not need to cook clean for mean children. They make fun at my food any how. They father can get the King burgers for them. I no need this shit.
It so hard meet good people here. No one understand my english. I think they acting, my english not best but not worst. I am only Asian here and they stare at me like a zoo animal from cage. Nervous making. My family say Thao be appreciate you have good man because I send them money so no want hear bad about his children.
I read here this place. I see many children of husband are bad to second wife. They need to kneel with rice under. America children are not respect for elders.
Kneeling on rice, we can
Kneeling on rice, we can dream... Where are you from?
Thao - If the ex wife touches
Thao - If the ex wife touches your mailbox again call the police and report it. That's a Federal Offense here. She'd get into big trouble.
How old are your step kids? No age is ok to be rude jerks. If they're adults, tell your husband you prefer they not come to your home until they can be respectful of you.
^^^^^This is good
^^^^^This is good advice^^^^^^
Voice recorders. When they
Voice recorders. When they spout thier racist idiocy play the recording back for your husband when he gets home. Do it while the kids are there so that they know you have them by the gonads.
I was thinking this as well.
I was thinking this as well.
I don't think this is a crew
I don't think this is a crew (and if I'm wrong you can kick my butt later).
I have a friend from Argentina that writes exactly the way she speaks. The OP's writing style is similar to my friends. Not that I think she's from Argentina as well, but simply because she writes the way she is translating from her native language into English.
Her process is a little more complicated because she's thinking in her native language, translating to English it for us to understand and and then writing in English.
Same here, can't say if she
Same here, can't say if she is or she isn't... she types english like my parents.... but her noun usage is good so I'm not sure, since my parents often confuse words that sound similar (my mom thinks caterpillar is helicopter, and miserable is mystery).
But I've heard plenty of teenagers (and some adults) make the same joke with me cooking cats/dogs/hide the pets.
I'd feed the brats cat curry.
I'd feed the brats cat curry.
Next time they accuse you of
Next time they accuse you of cooking a household pet, tell them you find that children are much softer and you will cook them as well. Using humor does not let them see your pain because they sound like the kind of brats who'd thrive off of seeing you hurt, cry, etc.
After you report BM to police for mail tampering (and let DH know your'e doing it), tell her next time, don't forget to put the cat in there--can't have Rice without Cat. Obviously trying to train the kids on something they should have known from a very young age is a tough job when they are getting it from one of their Parents so don't expect much progress. Just let them know you won't take it.
And as for your DH he's the one responsible for these brats and how they are acting. Whether he hears them or not, when you tell him what they say, he should believe you as you have no reason or grounds for telling such a lie. You have a right to not be abused and mistreated in your own home so if they continue, you can tell him they are not allowed there until they learn how to treat you. If he pushes your concerns aside, think about leaving.
I would record them and put hidden cameras in the house. When they start in on their mess, you can show him the recordings. Then he has no choice but to realize he's raising racist brats and can address it appropriately.
In meantime, I would disengage; don't cook or do anything at all for them. Ignore their very presence and require him to be there with him at all times.