just cant believe a mother could do this!
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bm who hasnt barely talked to her daughter in weeks now has really done it. Recently sd8 HAS cryed for her and she has not called or seen her . well tonight she BM finally called DH to say she was going to kill herself (this is 4th timeA) so he calls 911 and they come and get her. (she is fine...but pissed) .
Now she is in the psy unit and she is calling the phone saying she is gonna get out and kill me cus all of this is my fault.
I met DH AFTER they were seperated and she was at that time a well know drug user (that why he left her) WE have been married 2 years, dated 2 years and they were seperated 2 years........guess she hasnt gotten over it.
Anyway i have a little 8 year old girl that misses her mom........what do we tell her.
You can tell her
that "your Mommy is sick right now." Tell her "Mommy isnt feeling good and has to rest" This is somewhat the truth because the woman does sound sick!
On another note she is threatening to kill you I would suggest getting an order of protection and a big stick!
"And this too shall pass..."
I Agree
Get a protection order! My sister adopted her husbands child who is now 12 and hasnt seen his BM since he was 4. It was hell for my sister at first because he missed his mother so much. Similar to your BM his BM was also a drug addict. She showed up around the house when she was in and out od jail, stoned and trying to see her son. She got my brother in law arrested, physically attacked my sister...there was a lot of heartache. There is no place for a woman like that in a childs life. Remember just because you are able to give birth, doesnt mean you are a mother.