I feel wonderful!!!! It is so hard to believe the tremendous relief I feel. I feel reborn and about 10 years younger!!! The fact that I will never have to see his horrible kids or deal with that crazy BM is surreal.

Some moments during the day, I feel like I have to pinch myself to be sure it's true....I'm FREE!!

As for DH he is living with his mother and just bought a sports car yesterday according to his sister, who is my best friend. Him and I have not spoken and I hope it stays that way...I just want the divorce to be final and get him out of my life forever. He told her he feels bad that I haven't reached out to him to see how he is doing!!! Very typical male ego, pride bullshit....

My house will stay clean and quiet now!!! I'm so glad I never put his name on my home and we had separate savings accounts.

That is the only advice I have to give to every woman here.....have YOUR own nest egg, NEVER depend on a man to take care of you!!!!

I guess I wasted the last 3 years of my life taking care of him while he battled leukemia for two of those years, but better to have wasted 3 years than 10 years.

I can honestly say there would be a better chance of me being a cracked out, meth addict, prostitute then of me EVER marrying a man with kids again!!!! ( this coming from someone who is scared to even try pot!!)

Take care everyone and Ill check back when divorce is finalized......

You hues ROCK!!!!