If I'm not included; should I include SD??
Once; again I am the last one to find out SD13 is finally spending 1 day this month with her BM. Which is NOT the big deal at all; She is the oldest of the 4; and she kind of keeps an eye on the others (for an hour) till we get home. 11 and 9 (4 yr old in DCare) anyway; if she isn't there I really don't like my others home alone; so I have to scramble to find someone to sit with them. Why I can't I be let in on this?
A better example could have been used; but I think you get the point!! This is just the very latest and shortest to express.
So anyway; I make plans with the kids and then I am told by Daddy after all this -well she's not going to be here for that!?!?!? AAHHH really.
First of all should I have to discuss my ideas with my SD13 to see if it fits into her schedule and is it really that rude to want to do something with just my 3 other bio kids...
I haven't been able to do anything with just my BD11 in months since my BD has moved in because we/I am made to feel like it's rude to leave her out. Like it's my fault... :?
what if it was one of the
what if it was one of the other kids? Would you question yourself? or just say oh well and keep going with your plan? I would guess a lot of it would have to do with your relationship with SD and what you were planning on doing. She's going to be with BM - you have every right to hang out with your kids...i see nothing wrong with this.
Good luck to you.
Sorry; should have also made
Sorry; should have also made it clear that it has a lot to do with dad too.
But I have tried to have open lines of communication... Such as if I am standing right next to her, instead of her asking me or telling me what she is going to do; she'll scream for her dad or run around looking for him - like i really am invisible!!!!!!!!!
we have pulled her aside numerous times about this - but nothing changes - and dad doesn't stick to NETHING;
Okay thats it..... LOL
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