I need people's thoughts on this asap! here is my dilemma. I am 31 weeks pregnant. I have an 8 year old stepson who is over the moon about this baby and cannot wait for this baby to arrive. (his first sibling) His psycho mother has created quite the situation (as usual! feel free to refer to other blogs I have written for a broader background). Anyway, We got an email saying that the BM is taking my SS out of state (to Disney World) for 2 weeks. Starting March 23rd-April 7th. I am due to have this baby on March 27th. My husband tried to deny her vacation and even has a call into our lawyer. I am beyond upset about this and so is the hubby. But most people that we talk to besides a few family members dont see this as a big deal!??! Im kind of shocked by their reactions quite frankly. For the past 7 1/2 months I have been looking forward to my SS ( whom i am very close with) coming into my delivery room and setting eyes on his brother or sister for the first time. I would like pictures of the 2 siblings together for the first time in the hospital. I would like a picture of me, my baby and my ss and all these memories will be non exsistent if she takes him to FL. People are basically saying- oh thats terrible, but its a good thing you are going to need your time to adjust, and quiet time etc. I get all that but we have so many family members willing to help out w/ my ss that its not a big deal at all. Do we even bother bringing this to court? who do you think the judge will side with? I am just so sick over this, the memories that will not be made.....ugh,.,