I have just been offered a chance to work Monday-Sun my regular times Mon-sat 9am-untill closing which is anytime between 10pm and 12am. and then on sundays 12pm to close. I would love to take this chance because my boss has told me "youre really proving yourself maybe we can putt you in charge of the kitchen sometime" I think this would be a GREAT time to do this and also it would include a pay raise. (I would be making 22.50 instead of 19.50 an hour) I would also get every third weekend of the month off, this is only untill decemeber when business slows down. Then I will be working only three to four days a week.
FH is really upset about this saying that it cuts into "family time" with him and SS8.

SS8 right now is treating me like a carpet, anything I say to him he ignores me like i'm not even speaking, if I cook at home he wont touch it, and FH says "it's a phase he'll get out of it soon"

FH job requires him to be out on the boat from sunday afternoon to wed afternoon then depending on if he has to haul again in the week or not, thurs to sat. I really think I should take this offer up for work, but in one hand FH and I already dont spend a lot of time together, and the only time we really get is the weekends but he ALWAYS has SS8 and if he even tries to pick up SS8 later in the day so we can spend some time together BM AND MIL both will call and say how much he dosnt care about his BS and BS ALWAYS comes first, and how we have so much time together during the week and he shouldnt be blowing off his son.

first of all we dont have anytime during the week except to maybe sleep in the same bed three times a week if we are lucky. FH thinks and I quote "Maybe you should just quite your job so it makes it easier on ALL of us"

I can't and he can't afford me to quite my job seeing as we have a morgage and he refuses to have his CS redone.

(He got his child support done in the prime time of his fishing, and fishing has dropped off A LOT in four years and he deff. isnt making that kind of money anymore and the CS is 50$ a month less then what we pay for our morgage, we are also trying to save up for IVF so we can ACCTUALLY have kids of our own someday.)