Last month SK's come for their visit and reveal casually that they are going to live in a hotel. "The owner of the house we are staying at wants us out and gave us until the end of the month." the kids say. We find out through court documents that Transtesticle got evicted (this is the second time in two years) for not paying her rent. How she got into this place with a previous eviction is beyond me. DH tried to talk to her about what was happening (he records all their conversations) and she says she can't afford to pay her bills because he doesn't give her enough money and she goes to school full time. Um, going to school three days a week, to me, does not constitute full-time. AND, why can't she get a job if three of her kids are in school? He wanted the kids to stay with us for now, and of course she says "Hell no!"

Fast forward a few weeks later: kids are staying with a "friend" of their mothers. Transtesticle won't reveal the physical address to DH. So, DH is taking her to court, yet again, because the police basically say if you don't know where the kids are that's too bad, take her to court. WTH!! If the situation were reversed I'm sure the National Guard would be called in. SK's won't reveal anything and just say "I don't know." when asked where they are living.

While all this is happening, we find out that the father of the fourth child is trying to get a restraining order against her but she keeps avoiding the process server. So he and DH banded together and she was finally served for that, and to go back to court with DH.

Finally, SD 13 refuses to visit because she believes every negative thing her mother says about him; ie, he doesn't pay child support, he left her for another woman yatta yatta yatta. She tells her father to F*off while flipping him the finger every time he tries to speak with her. THEN that kid has the nerve to ask for a laptop, expensive skateboard, and a $200.00 gift card for Christmas. I told DH to wrap his foot in Christmas paper and give her a kick in the ass.

Sorry this was so long, but venting on this forum gives me some release and I appreciate that. However, the sadness from witnessing the damage this woman is doing to her kids is sometimes overwhelming. I'm tired of this crap and wonder how much more I can take.

Thanks for reading,
Snarky