Four days with BMs nephew
Grrrrr.....we are going on a camping trip this weekend and taking all the kids for DH's birthday. Of course we have to take BM's nephew with us - so not looking forward to four days of stupid questions, obnoxious noises, and requests to buy him stuff. Of course BM is all excited to have almost of week without the kids - sometimes I get so irritated that I have to put up with this nonsense so she can have time off. As far as I am concerned, she can keep the nephew 24/7. Working on making that happen.
Am I crazy? I realize that they took the kid in when he was a toddler, but my daughter is 2 and if DH and I split up in the future, I wouldn't just assume that he is required to have visitation with her. If he wanted to remain a father figure, great, but I wouldn't send her over to stay at the new wife's house. The BM also likes to say that DH really should be paying support for the nephew. Really......she has sole guardianship - how does that make sense to her?
Yes - he wants him to go.
Yes - he wants him to go. It's his birthday trip so I am not saying anything. It is not in the CO that we have visitation with him. We are just about to bring her back to court to reduce the CS and SS, get her to drive them one way for visitation, and alternate holidays with us. She is going to hit the ceiling and I am sure start to pull all kinds of nonsense. If she does anything too crazy, I'll just remind her that the CO doesn't include anything about the nephew and if she wants to go by the CO, she can keep him full time.