I am 37m, previously married for 10 years spouse and I lost many pregnancies and ultimately were told it wasn't going to happen for us. Years later that led to our divorce and fresh starts. That has led to dating many women with kids. I always thought I was good with kids in all situations until now. Just about 2 yrs ago I met and fell in love with my fiance, mother to a 14yro girl and 9yro son. They are good kids yet I find myself so annoyed and irritated way to often with them. Especially the boy. I need help, I have no one that has been in a similar situation that I can talk to.