My guy and I have been together for 10 years. We have lived together but no longer do because of the mixed family stuff. He treats his son who is 9 with totally differnt rules and respect than he treats my kids.

I cant stand it anymore. Tonight we had a nice dinner for early fathers day dinner because his son has to go home tomorrow... and it ends with me coming home because he Yells at the top of his lungs at my kid, while his kid is the one who is refusing to take the dog for a 10 minute walk with my kid.

I have sat by and done nothing, and have not yelled at his son, who doesn't respect anyone even his dad. Tonight I said forget it and said right in front of his son, that is isn't fait that my kid is being yelled at when it's his son being a jerk.

His son is rude all the time, and I don't know if he just doesn't see it or if he doesn't care.

My mother refuses to take his son with her because he is such a jerk. He doesnt listen to anyone. He is spoiled. He has his dad wrapped around his finger and I just don't know what to do.

I am so glad to have found this site because if not I think my rant would have be a regretted email to him.

He is so great to my kids as long as his brat isn't over. It is so frustrating. Even his own family bashes his son and his parenting behind his back which is frustrating because if they just said something it would back me up. Prove I am not the bad guy.

Is our love worth it??? I hope so! More so, I hope it is strong enough.