I am so fed up with the ex-girlfriend! She refuses to leave us alone! She and my DH have been split up for 18 years and she has been with her current BF for 20 (do the math). I have been with my DH for 16 years, married 14 of those years. She stalks us, we moved recently and she contacted all of our friends to find out where we moved to. Last time we moved she moved to the same area.

Now DH's sister in law and two nieces are friends with her on facebook. We have tried talking to them and their answer is it's only facebook, however in the EX G mind she thinks that this makes her part of his family. His kids are adults and she turned against us even though we raised them because she REFUSED to be a mother! We have no contact with the kids. I am so tired of her. She is the past and needs to be left there, but his family is not letting that happen. She has no business even contacting them or our friends. His family claims they can not stand her but yet they talk to her. Then she tells everyone that his family wants him and her back together (she lies so much she believes herself). All she wants to do is cause problems. I refuse to go to his brother and sister in laws for Christmas because I am so upset over this, makes me wonder if they are talking behind our backs.

After all the lies and things she put my DH through when they were together the family should not speak to her out of respect for him. I do not know what to do about it!!