I have known my SD14 since she was 2........she now lives with us FT.
DH tries to make us appear to be a "happy perfect family." :jawdrop: Meanwhile, the house and our family is falling apart. Princess gets A's so he thinks this is good enough. Yes, grades are good; but on the other hand.........Everything she says is a complete lie (no matter what it is) she steals, has had Sex in our house; she takes whatever she wants in the house; she's been caught stealing; this is all within 1 year.....

I am not saying I don't care about her; but I just really don't "want" a relationship with her. I don't trust her and to be honest; she's not how I have raised my other three kids. I just want to be civil but DH pushes and pushes for us to be close and says I'm a rude B**. Meanwhile her BM has only seen her 2 times in one month. It feels like he wishes I was her BM; but I'm not and don't want to be.

I wish I didn't feel this way; but I do...........