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Does anyone else get mad when DH can get over SDs behavior so eay ?

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Submitted by bscs1214 on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 9:37am

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Wouldn't you know it she needed something yesterday so she finally called her father after almost 2 months ( her car needed an inspection and oil change) so she goes up to my husband's shop and gets everything done and while my husband is telling me this he also says that she was her old self etc... I said of course she was she needed something from you ? Then I get you know I wonder if the crap she puts on her blog is just a front to sound tough infront of her friends that she really doesn't feel that way about us :jawdrop: !!!!!!!!!! Are you kidding me ??? All I could say was honey that blog is a place that she can talk her crap without us knowing about I just accidently found it one day... COME ON REALLY ? Has he forgotten that all he got for his birthday and Father's day was a text ???? But now everything is awesome because he got to see her because she needed something. Am I wrong for feeling this way ? She's an 19 yr old adult and has been trained by the best on how to use/play people to get what she wants. (Mom & Grandmother) And all the crap she has said not only about us but our family also.

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Submitted by CONFUSED1020 on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 10:21am

That is so true...
men are so stupid and blind when it comes to their kids doing anything wrong. My DH ex-sd19 would also treat him like shit if she didnt get her way or if he wasnt fast enough to bring her food. But then once she needed something their goes DH wagging his tail waiting to see what he can do for her, once she got what she wanted it was back to calling him names, hanging up on him and or not calling him. And when I woul tell him something about it his reason was "she acts like this cause shes had a hard life" and poor baby couldnt do anything by herself like seriously she had him take off her nail polish cause she couldnt do it. UUGGGHHH she disgusts me just the thought of her I call her his "wanna be daughter", but im so glad I dont deal with her shit anymore since we got married 3 months ago she refuses to talk to him for whatever reason she may have (which I really dont give a damn) and now DH sees the way she would treat him and all the shit she would do and say just to break us up and he wants nothing to do with her. Good after all shes nothing to him.

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Submitted by hbell0428 on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 11:10am

YEP!! Just yesterday I walked in from work to hear my lovely SD14 talking like dirt to DH - he said they "had it out" earlier.........as she walked out the door to spend the night at her friends house???????????? :jawdrop:

I wouldn't respect him either.........They wonder why

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Submitted by bscs1214 on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 11:16am

Boy do I know what you're talking about.... My whole problem with this is he has been used and abused by his ex and his own mother he doesn't need it from her too, but they have taught her well. For the most part she has been a good kid for the past 7 yrs that her father and I have been married but the older she's gotten boy has she just turned into a user. I understand that it's his daughter but she needs to learn to treat her father and family better. And I'm not trying to pat myself on the back but I have done way more then my share for the girl too and that's my fault for not wanting to be called the evil SM and we've gotten along well until I started treating her like an adult and starting calling her out on stuff now I'm the B.... Whatever I guess we as woman like to stand ground more then men on this subject.

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Submitted by CONFUSED1020 on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 11:21am

How can you respect a man who lets himself be talked to like that. Every chance I get I throw this in DH face or when im being a b*tch to him and asks me why am I being like that I tell him "whats wrong with me being like this you like to be treated like shit or is it that I'm not allowed to cause im not ex-sd you should be used to being around b*tches you raised one and married another one" (his ex-wife)boy do I get a kick ou of telling him this cause it shuts him up.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 12:39pm

I will call my son out when he crosses the line.

Once I deal with an issue it's over.

No matter how angry he may make me, I will always be in his corner. My parents are the same way with my sister and I.

Unconditional love.