Even as I type this I just feel :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:

Now I m going to give dh the benefit of the doubt as i made sure he knew what he had done and he has suffered by having to buy me my favourite very expensive bottle of wine I like but I cringe even thinking about what happened today.

So we are all In the car, dh, myself, ss13 and bs4 months. Bs is sleeping and ss is playing on his phone. Myself and dh are talking. Ss13 shouts out "what are you talking about?".
Now it has taken me two years to work on breaking this habit. Before it was completely acceptable for ss13 to include himself in every single conversation in the car and/or interrupt myself and dh talking without consequence. I went to say "mind your own business but got mixed up with none of your business".

Dh thought this was hilarious and repeated what I said as if I had a stutter.
I said what ss13 did there was completely rude. He says "ah stop being so touchy it wasn't rude".
Then he mimics what I said some more and him and ss laugh.

Now dh realized what he had done almost instantaneously, particularly by my reaction. Of disgust. He apologized profusely in front of ss but did not make ss apologize. He went for take out wit has and said he would talk to ss. I thought this would result in an apology from ss but apparently not.

While dh has apologized, I feel sick to my stomach thinking about it. I just asked dh to put himself in my shoes. Imagine if I said this in front of our bio. I'm sick of ss having such shitty behavior and for it be excused. No way will I allow this to happen to my bs even if that means I'm always the bad guy. Anyway, as it's been "dealt" with with dh I just needed somewhere to vent as it is seriously still ticking me off .