ok get this I commincate wit hthis lady and she still seems to disrespect me and tell lies after lies about things that don't make any sense. I have communicated with her for the girls to ensure activites events such it has worked out for a while but she makes things up and tells people on facebook that their dad has nothing to do with sports and transportation- she is such a liar looking for attention- i cant handle it though now she has her daughter-my step daughter lying to us my husband and I about things like pulling her out of school early with no discussion prior to doing it and telling the child not to tell us and to lie about it, who does that??Just sunday step daughter was throwing up all over missing school monday and she puts no effort to to let us know that she was sick nor missed school. I would think these are things to communicate on. We do to her and yet she still doesnt care to be fair back. like this weekend the kids are suppose to call and say good night to the other parent when at others home that is a court order, they didnt call my husband at all and yet we ensure that they call her each and everytime!!! Ifeel like I give give and get nothing back and she is just nasty-always putting me down my babies down, and never gives alittle when asked too, yet expects us to bend over backwards for her all the time or we are being diffcult I feel like telling her to go suckan *** i am done!!!! but i always hold back for the girls and self respect... i dont know how much longer I can put up with a marriage life like this... i want peace and to left out of all this s***.... what should i do,am i being to hard on her am i expecting to o much from a women who cant even cook her kids dinner or wash their clothes- she lives with her mom their grandma who cooks and cleans everything for them... how lazy and motherless of her....