so, sd11 had her friend sleep over cause the friends parents were fighting real bad. so we figured we would provide a safe haven for the girl, even for one night.

big mistake.

whenever sd11 is with this 'friend' the girls are always in trouble. i awoke at 3am to hearing banging and yelling from sd's room. i go in and the room is destroyed. everything that she has is scattered everywhere. and the girls are dressed in layers upon layers of sd's clothes. almost her whole wardrobe is on these 2 girls. why, idk.

so anyways, i told her freind she was not coming over for a long time. she asked why. duuuuuuh stupid! sd's room was a real mess b4 she came over but it was like a tornado came through. and it smelled like her friends shoes and whatever other nasty BO 11 yr old girls make. anyways, i told them to go to bed and they were getting up at 7am when i get up with bd3.

the next morning went well, so i knew something was up. both girls got up and dressed with no problem, even with like 4hrs sleep. once they both left for the friends house, i inspected the room, and OMG i thought i was gonna puke.

my lipstick was all over the wall. the same lipstick i couldnt find the day before, the same one sd said she didnt know where it was. the same one SHE helped me look for.

her grandma's comforter was cut open and the stuffing ripped out.

her pillows were written on with marker, as was part of her wall.

a bag of soaking wet peed clothes was under the bed.

paper, mounds of fuckin paper, with one little smiley face on each, all over the floor.

so i call the friends mom and tell her that her daughter is NOT welcome at my home anymore for any reason. i put the blame on both girls mind u, since they both did this. the mom didnt seem too concerned, said the girls never do things like that when they are at her house. whatever bitch.

so sd finally calls bf back and he layed it to her thick, told her she was done with skating, done with this friend, and she was to call the gma to tell her about the blanket. oh he told her that ebsm08 would deal with her about the lipstick. i told her that she is going to be punished so bad they will throw a benefit concert for her. she wont be home till 4:30. i think that bf has really had it this time cause he said he will let her stay at the friends house till 4:30, cause after that the girls were done with each other.

annnnnd. yesterday when bf went to the store to get me cigs, sd and i had a chat.

sd: when can i start smoking?
me: how about never. its nasty and i need to quit.
sd: i can get cigs myself
me: how's that?
sd: well logan and kyles mom know a guy that runs a gas station. i can get any kind i want
me: and what do the boys smoke? (mind u, boys are 9 and 12)
sd: marlboro reds
me: arent u allergic to cig smoke? u always say u hate the smell
sd: it doesnt bother me anymore. its not bad.
me: so those cig butts of mine we found in your room last month, u smoked them?
sd: i was gonna but u found them before i could get a lighter.
me: `sarcastic tone` great
sd: i'll get u tons of cigs if u dont tell dad.
me: what makes u think i wont tell him?
sd: cause you are acting cool now, not like all parental.

*i have been keeping out of shit. and barely talking to sd.

me: well dont be stealing my cigs like u do everything else of mine
sd: i wont. like i said i can get them whenever
me: u got any on u now?
sd: no i have to get more.

ok, so can anyone please tell me this child needs to go to a bad kid place???????