bm's big day
Just to consolidate my most recent posts, here's a rundown of crazy events with bm...that i really don't understand. Last weekend, bm calls over and over during dinner, we ignore her because we're eating.... she starts texting it's about sd6, call asap, and it's an emergency. So dh calls...guess what the emergency was? Sd6 won't eat her dinner. Yesterday, bm is suppose to come and pick up Sd6 after her soccer game, because bm is getting married this weekend and sd6 is a flower girl....sd6 is so excited that she literally can't sleep...game ends, bm doesn't show. She calls dh to let him know he can just bring sd6 to the wedding tomorrow when he comes....dh informed her we would not be attending and it was her job to come and get sd6, or we could drop her off it that was better for bm. She doesn't respond and shows up at 8:30pm to get her. Which is sd6 bedtime. At 10:50 last night bm calls....why dh answers i can't say...bm wants dh to come to her apartment and get sd6, who is still awake, and take her to the EMERGENCY ROOM because she has a dime sized spot on her foot, and she keeps scratching it. DH told bm that was pretty unreasonable, and if it was still there Monday, and if it didn't look ok at that point he might take her to the dr. BM began crying and made him promise her that he would take her on Monday..... Today is bm's wedding day and i don't understand all of this rediculas behavior. I would think she would be so busy getting things ready for today that she wouldn't have time to bother us with all of this....does this ever end? Is it just worse right now because of the wedding for some reason? I'm totally lost by this behavior...she normally calls with some rediculas request once a month or so, and sometimes dh gives in and does what she asks, but lately he's been telling her to deal with it, and i wonder if that has something to do with all this craziness.. I thought this day would bring an end to this sillyness....she has a husband of her own to torture now!! leave mine alone.. wouldn't that be nice, and is it too much to ask?!
hee hee, sounds like an
hee hee, sounds like an intense co-parenting strategy. it's funny to me because i've always wanted our bm to call with some kind of concern, no matter it was. just so we knew that she cared at all. looks like you have the other extreme. i have no advice except at least she values your dhs opinion? has she always been like this or is she doing a last minute freak out cause she's worried your dh is gonna be around less cause she's getting married?
Did I just catch that she
Did I just catch that she wanted you both to attend the wedding? WTH?
Yeah, she did want him to
Yeah, she did want him to attend the wedding, not so much me of course! She actually expected him to do it in fact, she said who is gonna watch sd6 if you're not there! He told her she'd have to figure it out. Dh has full custody of sd and bm only started spending time with her three years ago when she found out dh and i were dating. Everything is a play for control with her! But having been on this site for a while it seems that is just the way it goes with bm's!
Oh crazy BMs. Ours just got
Oh crazy BMs. Ours just got married recently as well and now she thinks that she can just call SO about anything kid related. She must have forgotten that she called CPS on SO in April of this year and filed false allegations of child abuse on him. Apparently SO is just supossed to let that go. She hasn't even apologized yet. She also had the nerve to text me about custody issues with her new husbands BD. Really. Apparenlty she has forgotten about trying to break SO and I up for the first almost year of our relationship because she wanted him back, all of the stalking, and all of the other completely unwanted crazy behavior.
Quite trying to figure them out. Their nuts. The only one that understands them is someone just as crazy as they are.