Apparently phone conversations are too much contact
I'm trying not to stress about this, but it's hard not to want to wring the you-know-what's neck. It's not enough that she won't let my husband see his kids, now she's also violating the order that he has which allows him phone contact every Sunday with the kids. First, it was an email from the whore a few hours before he was supposed to call Sunday stating that the kids wouldn't be home until Wednesday. So he sends the kids an email saying that he missed talking to them on Sunday, but will call Wednesday. So now an email stating they'll be gone until next Sunday. I guess they're staying with the only people in the world who don't have a friggin phone.
I know I'll calm down about this eventually, but I'm really needing to vetn at the moment.
Keep in mind that this order has only been in effect for about a month and a half and she's already violating it.
This lady sounds rotten! I
This lady sounds rotten! I really don't understand sometimes. I mean with all the dead beat parents out their, why do some people purposly put a wedge between the child and the other parent- that wants to be involved? My husband says it becasue they secretly know deep down that you could raise the child better than them and that is why they feel so defensive. Children are not possesions. This is a big thing that we had to deal with in our situation. The ex would say the "Jacob is mine." As a mother myself now, our son is part of us but he is his own person with seperate needs and wants. And children need BOTH their parents!
Exactly
I think you hit it on the nose, Skye22. My husband had the kids every weekend when they first separated (I think she like it because she could go out clubbing). Then we started dating and she hated it that the oldest would go home and tell her mother that she "loved" me and had fun at our house. The youngest would cry and not want to let go of my husband when we would bring him back to his mother's house. That's when we started having huge issues.. All of a sudden she wasn't willing to share anymore and when they went to have the final divorce hearing, she convinced the kids therapist to suggest one weekend a month supervised visitation and the judge reduced my husband's time with the kids to every other weekend. After everything was finalized, she didnt even let us have them for that. People can be so gross. I guess I shouldn't be surprised- this is the same woman who fed a 6 year old jello for breakfast and gave the 1 year old a little bit of yogurt before sending them to our house and didn't see anything wrong with it.