I am so happy I found this site after one horrible day that isn't even over yet. To make a long story short I have been with my bf for a little over two years and just a few months ago his 3 yo son started living with us full time. I was (and still am for the most part) happy that we have him now because BM is way too young immature and selfish to be a good mother right now AND just two weeks ago she decided to go back to her country without telling anyone or saying goodbye to SS or her other BS....she is such a mess....but anyway from the time SS was living with BM and when he would go visit her before she left he picked up A LOT of bad habits like screaming throwing hitting and now my bf and I are left to deal with it. It is especially hard for me because when I try to discipline him he starts screaming for BM and it is so overwhelming for me. I know temper tantrums are normal for 3 yo but it's so hard to deal with them and him screaming for BM when I feel like his temper is partially her fault to begin with. I took the day off from work because I have a final tonight and instead of studying I've spent the day getting hit and giving timeouts. I'm exhausted and can't wait for my bf to get home but then I have to go take a final

Does anyone else have any problems with discipline and their skids??