I told bf that we are better off not getting back together. That I love his kids, but I didn't realize BM was also part of the package. He told me she is a great person and I should give her a chance. I then reminded him that a great person doesn't cheat on their husband. A great person spends time with their kids. A great person doesn't take their kids for a roller coaster ride with their on/off again boyfriend, etc.

He rebutted by telling me she doesn't spend time with her kids because she is trying to better herself for them by attending Grad school. That's great, but she's been in Grad school for 3 years and has another 1-2 years left. And she didn't *have* to go back to school. She was doing well with her undergrad degree in nursing.

He began defending her again and I told him he can have her. But I reminded him that she recently threw a hissy to HIM about the possibility of her boyfriend cheating on her. She thinks he was cheating because *someone* stole some medications from her glove compartment when he had her car. And she suspects it was a girlfriend of his. My boyfriend was pointing the finger at her SO, calling him a BUM and town slut..... when I sarcastically said, "you know, it was probably some sort of psych medication that was stolen". He said he *thinks* it was pain meds for her back pain and migraines.

Ahhh, can't win.

I bought his kids 120.00 worth of Xmas gifts that I'm bringing back today. I'm going to use the refund money for a better Xmas gift for my parents.