My SD has certainly outdone herself this time! She has a crush, another boy in her class and we just learned earlier this evening from her teacher that the boy approached the teacher in class to complain that my SD has been using another students phone to text him and that he has also spotted her outside his house on several occassions. Needless to say the teacher has no clue what to do or say to her and neither do we..we were not aware things were this out of control with this boy she likes so much..FYI the boy wants nothing to do with my SD and he as his own little gf that just happens to be a rival of my SD and my SD hates the girl..the only other incident we knew about this boy at school was that one day my SD was screaming the kids name after school while boarding the bus, she ran after the boy screaming how in love with him she was and even tried to board his bus when the boy ran onto his bus to get away from her. Its like something out of a movie!! My DH had a talk to my SD about this earlier tonight and she claims she don't know why she likes him and blah blah blah..shes obsessed and it is SCARY! The object of her affection is completely freaked by her and he has every reason to be as far as I'm concerned! We just aren't sure what to think about this incident and aren't sure how to get it through to her that this boy wants nothing to do with her..its like we tell her but it isn't sinking in or she just isn't accepting it. This child has been on meds, seen theraepists, you name it weve done it! Is she just one of those cases that may just have to learn the hard way??? I just don't know how else to go about this other than telling her the honest truth..we told her how serious it is and how she is considered a stalker and how texting him using any phone is harrassment..she is giong to wind up in some serious trouble more so than she already has..I mean this boys gf has a number of little friends that would be happy to kick the crap outta my SD..and sometimes its almost like she is trying to get that reaction out of people..like yesterday she wore an oversized tshirt to school with some matching pants..it looked ok but the shirt was HUGE..then the next day she wore the very same thing..then she came home complaining how others made comments about the fact that she wore the same outfit..and I told her they would before she even left that morning..could she just be one of those kids that longs for confrontation from the ones she despises? Just wondering because she does it to me quite a bit..here lately shes been awful sweet but I know theres some kind of an angle or something she has done that I juset haven't figured out yet..ughhh! Oh and she has also been told what this boy thinks of her at the very beginning so its not like its news to her..she just won't accept it