Riddle me this.. What would Crazy BM want with DH's Mom's number?
Mind you.. she dropped SS off at DH's Mom's last Friday, and in doing that, claimed she forgot the street his Mom lives on although the street is right around the corner from a friend of hers. Now she has suddenly and miraculously forgotten the phone number-
I told DH if she can't remember the phone number, then that's HER problem.. I'm just wondering what the psycho is up to now....
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If she's like BM over here;
If she's like BM over here; she's trying to worm her way in with your in-laws. Watch out.
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We've all seen Cinderella; only a fool would mistreat the woman responsible for her kids when they're with daddy.
Definitely
DH's mom told her "NO" knowing her tendency to drop SS off in the morning and come back late at night, from what I understand, she can't even get her OWN family to watch her kids anymore.. because of more of the same..
I have no idea but for nothing good I am sure.
My mother asked for SpermGrandMa's number once. Apparently she wanted to call and start forming an amiable communication with her since both are SS's Grandmothers.
Up, sorry Mom. You have no need to speak with her and you for sure do not want to disrespect my wife by engaging with SpermGrandMa.
Mom agreed with me and has ultimately learned to detest SpermGrandMa as much as the rest of us have. SpermGrandMa has earned it with her manipulative toxic crap.
"He's not your real dad. She's not really your GrandMother. He's not really your GrandFather. He is not your real Uncle. She's not your real aunt. They are not your real cousins. None of them are real family ......" She is so insecure about her own quality as a GrandMother and the quality of her Son and the rest of her extended brood that she attacks my family as not being my SS's REAL family.
SS's knows better because he knows which extended family has been there for him when he needs them. He knows who goes out of their way to attend his concerts, sports events and travels for hundreds or thousands of miles to visit him.
Never has it been SpermGrandMa or her extended brood.
There is no need to the NCP to have the contact information for their former extended family.
I got along extremely well with my former I-Ls. But once my XW and I divorced I did not got out of my way to stay in contact with her family. I felt it was disrespectful to my own family and intrusive on their family. However, I have run in to my X-I-L's a few times at restaurants around town and had dinner with or lunch with them when it happens. They are great people and I like and respect them.
Just my thoughts of course.
Best regards,
This...
happened to us not too long ago. BM wanted DH's family addresses so that she could send Xmas pics to them--keep in mind, she lies & never did send ANYTHING bc she never had them taken which she admitted to a few months later. Also, asked if it would be o.k. for her to take the kids and visit them.
Now, I am a overly suspicious person by nature, so I suggested to my husband that if she wants to send anything and/or that he would be more than happy to communicate/visit HIS family, not her.
" Everything reactionary is the same; if you don't hit it, it won't fall."
The Human Beast Bitch asked DH for his mom and dads
phone number. Then when she saw them next, about a year after thier divorce, she asked my mother in law if she could still call her "momma". How cute is that? Whatever dude, I have my very own momma!
BM's can be sick sometimes. They just do what they can to piss of the new wife.
could be something small. My
could be something small. My MIL asked me for BMs address and phone number to see could send her a card and note congradulating her on her wedding last year.
As far as I know they correspond this way here and there. I don't ask and I don't really care. My MIL does not agree with the way BM is raising SD or the way she treats me but thinks it is the right thing to do--take the high road to be a good Christian.
Beats me, but it's not ur or his place to give it....
When BM aksed for her old friend's number (the wife of my DH best friend, I said I would have to ask permission first. She said no, so I tried to be gentle about it and say it wasn't my place to give it out without asking first. BM got all nasty about it and I finally told her the truth, "since what you did to DH, she doesn't like you anymore-she picked his side over you". I didn't want to tell her that, but she kept pushing the issue. BM gets no one's number without their permission. You can also say, I will give them your number and they can call u if they want to.
"A parents job is to eat as much sh*t as we have to so that the children do not."
I would LOVE it
if BM wanted my MIL's phone number. I would give it to her in a heart beat. MIL can not stand the c*nt and would give her the biggest what for in the whole world. When MIL came down for our wedding, BM showed up to pick up the boys and she looked at my MIL and said "Hi MOM" MIL did not reply to her and BM walked out with her tail between her legs. MIL hates her almost as much as I do and I would love to be a fly on the wall for that conversation!!!!!
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