I'm new here and been wanting to share my story.

Our BM is the fakest and the most evil person alive. She is also the queen of gossip. Not a day passes without her talking about people behind their backs. I've come to believe that she thrives on gossiping and trying to believe that she's better than everybody. In fact, she's not! The weird thing is, she puts up this nice, super caring facade in front of many people-- including us-- but if you could rip her open, you'll see how she's reeking with hatred, anger, and insecurity.

My husband and I are not doing anything against her. We own some sites that have analytics and site meters installed in each one and that's how we discovered that she's been searching our names on Google, clicked on my husband's public article, pried on our wedding site, and shared all info that she could find with her friends. In my opinion, only an insecure person would do that! I mean I've never done anything like that when I broke up with my ex-bf!

One time she published a nasty article on her blog about my husband and shared the link to her friends on Facebook (some of those people are also friends of my husband). One of my husband's Facebook buddies (their common friend) alerted him about the link and so we read the entry. I was so mad at the entry that I forwarded her blog link to my friends and relatives just to show to them what my husband's ex had been saying about him. I also took the initiative to email and correct her. She apologized and took the article off her blog. We started exchanging emails until some misunderstanding ensued between us. So I said, it would be better if she won't email me anymore to avoid misunderstanding in the future and I just refuse to be the source of any confict. There was no communication after that and we refused to even answer to any of her emails. We chose to ignore her and just really reduced her to nothingness.

We never visited her blog ever until someone from Facebook alerted my husband again about some nasty anonymous comments posted on her blog, to which she responded. We have no idea who posted those-- must be her bf's children or ex-wife or any of my friends who learned to hate her because of what she wrote about my husband-- but she keeps on spreading false accusations that it's me who have been stalking her and posting those childish comments! At first, I just laughed at it and I pity her for barking at the wrong tree but it became more annoying when she accused me the second time around. Someone has been kind enough to share to us her emails that contain false accusations about me and how she questions my mental state. I mean, she doesn't even know who I am and she doesn't have any proof that I actually posted those! And yes, she's spreading to the world that it was me who did it! I swear I hate her for that but I am trying to keep quiet because I made a promise to myself and my husband that I will completely ignore her!

Believe it or not, she even accused me of being insecure about my marriage. Ha! That's just laughable! The truth is, she's the one who is insecure because she can't get over me and could not, for the longest time, even ask her bf to marry her because he was not even divorced when they started living together (talk about being so classy and sophisticated). We are predicting that she will self-destruct pretty soon because she's delusional and hallucinates about me attacking her when I'm not even doing anything! I don't even think about her (well now I do because I'm typing this!). She has these demons in her that tell her I'm actually posting on her blog (which, by the way, contains shallow, trivial, and self-centered entries about her small insignificant life). The worse part is, she drags innocent people into believing in her lies. Those poor people think I'm the villain when she's just making up stories about me being the villain. Unknown to them, what she's spreading are all lies! Oh wait, do they even notice how she has gone crazy by pointing fingers at innocent people like me? Honestly, she should pause and try to think of those people who hate her her more (I bet you there are a lot!) and who are capable of posting those entries on her blog!

She thinks her life is better than ours. That's what she constantly tells people anyway. She must be so insecure of her life that she had to go out of her way to tell people she's better off than us. If indeed she's living a great life, she won't have to tell friends about it. It will just show. But, of course, what can you expect from a self-serving, ego-centric, and insecure person?

By the way, her husband's kids hate her, too and they refuse to have anything to do with her (and their father). She's been blogging about them, too and has been posting on her blog how she's angry and mad at them for leaving their house! Wow, what a loving woman indeed! She is just sooooo full of anger and hate!

It's hard to stay silent in the midst of all these attacks but I'm really trying my best to be patient. I told my husband over and over again that I won't stoop down to her level just to prove my point. Their common friends actually think she's miserable and has gone crazy. They know the truth and know that she's nothing but a liar. Their advice to us is to ignore her.

My plan of action is to continue to be quiet and let her self-destruct-- soon she will explode and she will totally ruin herself. It won't be too long. If ever she confronts me about stalking her, I will just tell her, "I think you need a shrink!" I will also show her my solid proof that it's not me who's the stalker but she is! In fact, she's been stalking us since early last year by searching my husband's name on Google and reading our sites and articles!

I have nothing against her boyfriend-- he seems a good person. But, I hope he realizes that he's living with a monster!

Thank you for reading and let me know who you'd do if you were in my shoes.