My FH mother has been diagnoised (sp?) with mouth cancer. Well Im really worried about her, and my F FIL. But I have only been through the cancer trauma once my whole life with my grandfather and sadly he passed 9 years ago with it. Everyone thinks Im the strong one the one with a solid head on my shoulders. But in all honesty its killing me on the inside this woman has been more of a mother to me than anything and I love her dearly. So my question is what do I say to my FH when he asks me what do I say to mother (bc she wants to talk to him alone) and I have no idea what to say to do or anything. I have never felt so hopeless in my life, I know ppl say that they dont get along with their MIL but mine is like my mother bestfriend (besides FH) the one who I go to for long talks. So if you all would kindly keep her in your thoughts and prayers my family would be greatly apprieciative. On top of that he has a custody court date on monday. So we are hoping to get full custody of his boys. Wow life seems so unfair sometimes. Sorry for rambling Im just at a loss for words right now. Thanks for listening to me ramble on.