She opened with explaining that she didn't want to cause a fight. She then told BF that SS was still having headaches and she brought him to the doctor who agreed that it was probably due to stress. BF asked, "Is SS going to school?" Uh, yeah, BM said. "Good." BF said. BM started to complain about how BF is putting stress on SS with his custody lawsuit. "Do you have a job?" BF asked her. She replied that she did, that the paperwork wasn't finished and she didn't know when she would be starting, but that she does have a job. BF explained to her that all she has to do is get a job and everything goes away. BM says, "Well just FYI my unemployment benefits have been extended." Whoopdie-doo! BF said, "Good for you, that doesn't give you an excuse to not have a job!" At that point she started in on how "Well personally I blah blah blah" so he hung up on her. I'll believe she has a job when I see proof. In my experience, when I've been hired somewhere I usually start work that next Monday. She's been claiming for several weeks that she's "gotten a job and just doesn't know when it will start," but when asked where it is she either won't tell or tells a lie. She admitted that the place she told her BEST FRIEND she had gotten a job was a lie she purposefully fed to him as misinformation to see how long it would take for that information to get back to her through the grapevine. Uh, how immature is that? Clearly she's not serious about getting a real job if she's keeping herself busy making up stories about it.

She has 19 days left to respond to BF's petition to modify custody. I'm suprised she hasn't already responded. I guess because they extended the child support hearing until after our baby is born, she's in no hurry to keep things moving fast. She should have known they wouldn't raise BF's child support payment so close to our baby being born anyway because it would just go right back down.