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I get to start planning our wedding!

Nymh's picture

Hooray! It's still a year away, but last week BF told me that I could officially start planning for it. If you haven't noticed, we're a very unconventional couple. We've known for about 6 months that we're going to be married and it's going to happen on this date, but I still don't have a ring yet (and probably won't for a while). There probably won't even be a formal proposal for us, but he might come up with something to suprise me. However, since it's kind of hard to call someone your fiance when you don't have a ring on your finger, I guess he's still technically BF to me.

So now, I work at the doctor's office, I run my own cleaning company, I help BF run his computer company, I am pregnant, and I'm planning a wedding. We were going to try to buy a bigger house but BF suggested that I'm already a little overextended as it is and might not want to add anything else to my plate. I agree!

Oh, and I got a vehicle...and my BF has been a lot less "controlling" since I've gained this extra bit of independence. Life is good Smile

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frustrated like nobodies business's picture

that is great..you sound like my bf and i...we're already planning what we want and he hasnt proposed yet...how funny Smile congrats..and if you come accross anything interesting you'd like to share i'll be more than happy to get wedding crazy with you Smile

Colorado Girl's picture

I like being "unconventional"...makes life all the more interesting...

Your BF/soon2bDH/fiance is lucky to have such a patient girl like you! Smile

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

Nymh's picture

I like to joke (to myself, in my mind)...I've been going through four years of crap because of our relationship, I deserve a frickin ROCK!! }:)

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

Colorado Girl's picture

a HUGE rock. Wink

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

Most Evil's picture

So happy for your honey - those are good times! That was the time I made it an every day goal to be 'in the moment' (not worrying or planning ahead like I am prone to do). These are special moments to savor and remember forever :)!!

"In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer." -Albert Camus