Just found out...
that my fiancee got denied full custody..it's hard to believe that a mother can go 8 months of not contacting her child and collect food stamps with the kid on the case and NOT get into trouble for this...It's simply appalling to me. There has to be a way to get this woman investigated for food stamp fraud...but I don't know where to start...this isn't a revenge thing for me...I feel it's just wrong for people like this to get away with getting 300 dollars a month for 1 person...
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If the official court documents say that she has full placement, then she's probably going to qualify for food stamps until the court documents are changed. Do you think that may be why she's getting away with it? Because she has custody on paper?
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they both have had 50/50 since the beginning
but she basically left their son with my fiancee for 8 months FULL TIME, collected child support the whole time along with food stamps, while he went broke because of it....that was the reason for taking her back to court...but I guess it doesn't matter what a mother does anymore does it?
I knew it would end up like this...
I told him when he started this that the courts are pro mom. This woman is just unbelievable..she sends him to our house every other week with no winter clothes and it's 10 below here most mornings when we send the kids to school, even though we send hats and gloves with him when he goes there so every other week we are buying new winter things for him.. he's come back smelling from obviously not being bathed, she sends him to school with unbrushed hair, the list goes on. And my fiancee still has to pay her. We also have to move but can't afford 3 bedrooms because of the chld support so I know it's not really fair but since he's only here half the time I told BF that he would just have to crash on the couch until we move out of state. And I know she won't allow him to go with us so I think once we make the move most of this drama will end...
We are going through the
We are going through the same thing right know. BM is trying to say that we bad mouth her in front of SD. She has the teacher testifying against us in court. Would SD7 have to be at the court hearing? BM has been telling SD that she will get to miss 2 days of school because of court. I am GoingNuts.
Thanks, I just have a
Thanks, I just have a millon questions. I just don't understand how they can put chidren through this but yet claim that we are the faulty party. I am a BM and SM and would never put them through this. My ex and I get along great and work on everything. We have a decree which states I have fully custody but I don't think there is a word in it that is followed. At what point do BM's realize that it's no longer about them it's about the children. We have never called BM bad names in front of my SD but BM got the teacher to write a letter saying that we did and also the teacher is testifying against us. I think a judge will see that all of this is petty but you never know. She has nothing that is a substancial change just a bunch of petty stuff. I worry that we will get a judge that is in a bad mood and give BM full custody
Haven't been on here for months...
I recognized your name, Cruella, and just wanted to ask if biomom or Happy is still on here or any other names that I would remember from 6 or 7 months ago?
That's about the only thing
That's about the only thing the GAL is saying in his report. He says that she has everything that she needs in both homes, however, SD wants to live with BM. SD is not abused, we are not alcoholics and we do not abuse drugs. Have you ever heard of impitego? My SD had it while I was in the hospital with my New Born. We did not realize it was anything more than a bug bite that had been scratched. We even allowed SD in the room with our new born. Anyways, BM is trying to say that we refused SD medical treatment and is using this in court as well. Like I said there are several little things that she is trying to use. With the impitego the ER only gave SD a cream not anything oral. This would also indicate that it was not a life threatening infection like BM is claiming. I am just so fed up with everything. I feel like I have personal spy at all times.
We spoke with several
We spoke with several Doctors even when BM was present and the Dr. laughed at her and said it is not life threatening. BM got mad and tried to tell the DR it was. BM is such an idiot that she tried to argue with a DR. I just hope that she gets what she has coming to her and pays for what she has done to us.
I just thought of something...
When ex wife returned her affidavit of HER side of the story..she admitted to leaving fiancee's son with him fulltime because it was an "agreement they had" couldn't he use that to basically say she outed herself? Collecting child support and food stamps after you admitted you didn't have him 50% of the time?? Ya think it would work?
I would also agree. We have
I would also agree. We have a recording of BM using SD against us and we are going to take it to court. I would show it to your attorney and go from there.