i guess if you're a liar, you may as well be a really good one...seriously, all she did for one hour was lie about shit from the past. how many times can they rehash the same ol' shit?! granted, this time was for the benefit of the counselor, who by the way said he didn't see how the two of them even got together in the first place, to which dh told him how he was at a low point in his life and she pursued him. she said he pursued him! and the lies just kept going. she said our dogs attacked sd and that they were german shepard size. okay, the nipped her, once when we were giving the terrier a haircut and once when she tried to take a bone from our basset, neither of which are waist-high like she tried to say. lol. then she said she was on my myspace page the other night, um, hello, my page is on PRIVATE, and obviously for a very good reason! that i am an alcoholic, that dh is also. it was just ridiculous. and she tried to get her boyfriend into the session!!!! lol. i am positive the counselor saw right through her evil ways. and i was proud of dh because he made some excellent points. so now they each have to watch some 'getting along after divorce' video even though they weren't freaking married. it costs $20 which is awesome; i love wasting money. then they have an individual session, then TWO more joint ones. are you freaking kidding me??? and of course bb was the one to point out that fact, which only confirms that she wants to meet with him. it was funny how the counselor caught bb in multiple lies though, it definitely helps our case. so at this rate, we won't see sd for another month and a half, making it a grand total of five months since we've seen her or talked to her. isn't that f#cking insane???!!! so dh said he has some choice words for the judge regarding how he has been treated, not getting to talk to sd and all. so wish us luck that the rest of these sessions actually get somewhere and maybe, just maybe, she can talk about productive ways to raise their daughter, rather than lie about who cheated with who, who pursued who, some 10 years ago!!!!!!