Case dismissed! BF said that BM didn't even have a lawyer - she usually doesn't. She BS'ed on and on for a while and the judge was basically like...ok whatever. He dismissed it since there were no solid grounds, BM couldn't even define what time it happened or what county she was in WHEN it happened! The judge gave her a lecture on how this is just a failure to communicate between two people, and how this was an example of someone abusing the system to get back at someone who has hurt them, and the only person hurting in all this is the son, who she is putting in the middle and said she needed to think long and hard about that before she did anything else trying to hurt BF.

PHEW I'm so happy. BF's lawyer also talked to the judge (purposefully in earshot of BM) and told him that we also have two cases pending for phone harrassment, one case for contempt of court, one for child support, one to change custody over to BF, a restraining order hearing for me, and she might soon be under investigation by DCS. BM was flabbergasted! I think she got the picture! She hasn't called BF since court this morning, a pleasant suprise. Let's just hope she realizes now that we mean business and this shit has got to stop or she's going to be the one who's life is turned upside down.

Judge also split the court costs evenly between both of them, which BM tried to bitch about. He just told her she should have thought about the cost before she brought upon the charges!

Hooray!!!

*~So sayeth Nymh~*