Ugh it feels like I just can't get away from this woman! She's called my work every day this week. I haven't been taking her calls, and everyone who answers the phone has been given a briefing and knows that her calls are to go straight to voicemail. I've even told them that if she asks them to just write down a message to give to me, to tell her that they aren't allowed to take personal messages and just transfer her to voicemail without giving her time to argue. She's sending me emails too, which I also don't answer. Thank goodness she doesn't have my home number or cell number!

I've been updating the logs of when she calls and what about, and have found an interesting trend. For the past three days she's called my BF's work, then turned right around and called my work within 5 minutes of hanging up with him. Oh look, that's her calling right now as I'm typing this! You know, if it was so important, wouldn't she be leaving messages? She calls him all the time but very rarely ever leaves a message on the machine if he doesn't pick up. But anyway, so she called to talk to BF a few days ago and was giving him her normal non-important non-critical updates on SS, when she decides to ask him how his court date went. He told her that that had nothing to do with SS and hung up. So guess what she did? She called my work and left a message for me to call her. Something that's completely none of her business, has nothing to do with SS, and she shouldn't be contacting BF or me about in the first place! I didn't call her. So I get an email later that night asking if I didn't get her message or just decided to ignore her request to call. Then she emails me again to ask how the court hearing went. WTF? She called again the second day and got transferred to my voicemail, where she left a message saying it was kind of urgent that I contact her and she really needed to talk to me. She called again today, the third day in a row, and the woman who answered the phone went to my administrator and asked if he would speak to her and remind her that she was asked in May of 2006 to not call or contact our office anymore. She asked him if she could speak to me and he told her that I was busy. He told her that she shouldn't be calling me anyway, especially at work, and that she should be talking to BF NOT me. Then she told him that she'd left me several messages and emails but I'd not responded. He says "Well it seems pretty obvious that she doesn't want to talk to you!" She tells him to pass on the message that she's on the way to the emergency room with SS and she thinks he has appendicitis.

I'm going to feel really bad if SS actually does have something wrong with him, but I REALLY doubt he does. According to her he's been running a fever for three weeks and complaining of severe stomach pain. She also says he's been begging her to take him to the doctor. We had SS two weeks ago for a weekend and he was totally fine...no fever, no stomach pain, nothing. No complaints all weekend long. She also claims that he's been using the bathroom (#2) like 6-8 times a day, which is complete BS...I think if we had him all weekend we'd notice him going that much, but he didn't.

My administrator has urged me to take my evidence to a lawyer and sue her. But what could I sue her for? I was under the impression that I could MAYBE get a restraining order, but I didn't know I could sue her...

I'm going to talk to BF about taking SS to doctors of our own when he's with us and getting second opinions...her actions regarding SS's health are really starting to scare me. Am I just over reacting or do I have good cause to be worried?