Maybe this will be therapeutic, but I absolutely hate my wife's two kids. I am not going to call them step-kids, as I refuse to acknowledge any relationship between them and I.

Let's start with the oldest one first. When he first moved in I caught him with naked pictures of a girl his age on his tablet. I tried to be nice and told him to delete them and I wouldn't tell his mother. Long story short, I have caught that kid watching a ton of pornography on his tablet and phone. We have taken them away because anytime we give him a chance the first thing he does is look at porn. He tries to “hack” his mom’s computer and her phone and tablet, but just ends up putting a ton of viruses on it, to a point that the devices were not working. The kid lies about everything all the time. It is so bad that if he said the sky was blue, I would go outside and check. In school, this year alone, he has been tardy 33 times and skipped class 10 times. He doesn't do his homework in class and already has 5 F's in 3 semesters. His excuse is he will always get better and that it is his teachers fault. Never does he take any responsibility. At school the teachers tell him to do something and he argues with them. He is constantly causing problems in his classes. His attitude at home is even worse. He thinks he knows better than everyone. He constantly backtalk's, he tries to tell his mom what to do and to give him money. We had to get him glasses. He broke them in a week. We got another pair and he lost them in less than a week, then demands that we get him glasses. I have caught him stealing things out of my room twice. Today I have had it I told my wife we are putting him on a plane to his dad in two weeks. He goes or I go; one or the other.

Her 11 year old is even worse. Constantly lying like his brother about everything. In the past 3 months he has been suspended for fighting 3 times. He is so bad in school they have to give his teacher a break and send him to a principle or another teacher who is not with a class. He is performing at a 2nd grade level when he is in fifth grade and of course the schools just pass him through. The only kids that will play with him are younger kids. He has no friends that are his age. Whenever you try to give him any punishment, he has a meltdown, starts hitting himself in the head and screams at the top of his lungs. I have forgot all of the things this kid has done, but the one that stands out is drawing happy faces on all of my doors in my house and on all of the pictures on the wall and acting like it wasn't a big deal. The kid has gained 50 lbs since he moved in. In fact, he weighs more than his 15 year old brother. He refuses to go outside and play and just wants to lay around and watch TV all day and watch cartoons. We can't leave him home alone because he is "scared". We have taken him to a psychiatrist and a psychologist, they have diagnosed him with several behavioral disorders, but I am a bit skeptical as it seems like he is manipulating the situation to get what he wants. He even lied to Child Protective Services and they came out and looked at the situation and immediately closed the report all because we grounded him to his room for 3 days.

Neither kid has any concept of discipline. They just want to cruise through life. The wife has told them already that she is ready to send them to their dad because she is tired of all of the problems they are causing. I am now refusing to provide anything for either of them anymore. No helping with clothes, no helping with school, no paying for the gym classes, nothing. I will provide food for the house because I have to. I am turning off the internet that they have access to and taking the TV remotes as well as my Game controllers. I don't want them in my house anymore.