BAHAHAHA I love it when BM claims something is in the custody agreement then DH quotes the custody agreement proving her wrong. Anyone else get joy from this?
Not CO related, but my ex-H never read the divorce documents or agreements. He just signed away and then got mad at me later and said I "stuck a knife in his back." Um, no. You were provided with ALL the information in a timely manner, given opportunity to respond and didn't, then legally agreed (I was generous and split everything 50/50 with him to get OUT of there fast).
Some people just don't read or understand why it's actually important.
Oh hell yea! It was one of my favorite sports for the 16+ years we lived under the Custody/Visitation/Support order governing my Skid's and our lives.
I was ranked #1 in the world at rolling up the CO and keeping it handy to smack the shit out of toxic blended family opposition with when they would get stupid-er. I ramped the pain up when I discovered the Supplemental County Rules governing support and visitation. }:)
When the SpermGrandHag would get lippy and start pulling stuff out of her ass and my bride and/or I would beat her into submission hearing her stutter, splutter, and whine gave huge satisfaction. My favorite part was when she would harrumph and give out a final... "well it shouldn't be that way" then one or the other of us would close with "but it is and if you don't like it we would gladly see you in court" and then hang up as she was starting her "YOU WOULD LIKE THAT WOULDN'T YOU? CS WOULD JUST GO UP!" rant. }:)
The side with the strongest knowledge and understanding of the CO and any supplemental jurisdictional rules or state regs that cover Custody/Visitation/Support will win just about every time that the toxic blended family oppostion gets out of line. This strategy can often intimidate them into not going back to court. Which for us would have been fine either way but for others it could be helpful in avoiding court.
Not that I have ever left court feeling like I didn't need a shower even when we kicked Sperm Clan ass which we alwys did. Even when we won every point we were focused on the process just left me feeling skeevy and like I needed to scrub every square inch of my skin with a wire brush. shudder
A win is a win but for some reason in blended family situations the satisfaction associated with a win is not quite as enjoyable as it should be IMHO.
Good luck in future smack downs and keep your rolled up CO forehand volley in good shape. Backhand too. And your lob... just in case.
Not CO related, but my ex-H
Not CO related, but my ex-H never read the divorce documents or agreements. He just signed away and then got mad at me later and said I "stuck a knife in his back." Um, no. You were provided with ALL the information in a timely manner, given opportunity to respond and didn't, then legally agreed (I was generous and split everything 50/50 with him to get OUT of there fast).
Some people just don't read or understand why it's actually important.
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Oh hell yea! It was one of
Oh hell yea! It was one of my favorite sports for the 16+ years we lived under the Custody/Visitation/Support order governing my Skid's and our lives.
I was ranked #1 in the world at rolling up the CO and keeping it handy to smack the shit out of toxic blended family opposition with when they would get stupid-er. I ramped the pain up when I discovered the Supplemental County Rules governing support and visitation. }:)
When the SpermGrandHag would get lippy and start pulling stuff out of her ass and my bride and/or I would beat her into submission hearing her stutter, splutter, and whine gave huge satisfaction. My favorite part was when she would harrumph and give out a final... "well it shouldn't be that way" then one or the other of us would close with "but it is and if you don't like it we would gladly see you in court" and then hang up as she was starting her "YOU WOULD LIKE THAT WOULDN'T YOU? CS WOULD JUST GO UP!" rant.
}:) 
The side with the strongest knowledge and understanding of the CO and any supplemental jurisdictional rules or state regs that cover Custody/Visitation/Support will win just about every time that the toxic blended family oppostion gets out of line. This strategy can often intimidate them into not going back to court. Which for us would have been fine either way but for others it could be helpful in avoiding court.
Not that I have ever left court feeling like I didn't need a shower even when we kicked Sperm Clan ass which we alwys did. Even when we won every point we were focused on the process just left me feeling skeevy and like I needed to scrub every square inch of my skin with a wire brush. shudder
A win is a win but for some reason in blended family situations the satisfaction associated with a win is not quite as enjoyable as it should be IMHO.
Good luck in future smack downs and keep your rolled up CO forehand volley in good shape. Backhand too. And your lob... just in case.