I have been home barely a half hour from work. Here is what I see when I get home.
1) Kitchen sink with crap and what looks like dried paint all on the sides of it.
2) Collection notice in DH's name from the library for $44.
3) Baking soda put on the carpet in my bedroom right at my bedpost to absorb dog pee.

WHO, praytell, could have done any or all of these things? Anyone in my world that has "STEP" in front of their name!!

1) OSD19 drove 45 minutes home from school today to sand something in the garage. She left the card table out and didn't bother wiping it down. She left her mark in the kitchen sink. If she was sanding, she was probably painting, too, and it looks like she rinsed her brushes in my sink and left crud all over it. I told DH about these things and he said SD19 didn't know how to fold up the card table? Well, just do the OPPOSITE of what you did when you unfolded it, or goodness! Maybe TRY a little HARDER next time to put it away? You're going to be 20 soon! And FFS, leave things the way you found them!! I told DH that this is a perfect example of SD19 not cleaning up after herself! Rinse out the fucking sink. None of us leaves the sink like that except for SD19. I also told SD13 NOT to clean the sink, I wanted DH to see it when he got home.

2) I asked YSD13 if she had any library books out and she said she went to the library 2 months ago. I told her to go up to her room NOW and bring the book down. "Um, it's at school. I'll get it tomorrow." WTF is it doing at school, you morn skid? I further read the letter in DH's name and the library still collects the $44 late fee, even if you bring the book back. DH immediately thought HE had a book out that he had forgot to return. That's when I told him that SD13 said she had one in her locker at school. I asked if he had been getting emails from the library about any items being past-due? His inbox is full f crap that he probably missed. A late fee of $44? Sure glad I transferred more money into my account this weekend.

3) MY PERSONAL FAVORITE is the dog pee on my carpet that is doused in about a cup of baking soda by DH, because he thinks it will magically clean up everything. He thinks "ONE" of the dogs "must have peed there." Um, DH, it's up AGAINST the bedpost. WHO marks in this house? WHO doesn't wear a diaper when they are in our room at night sleeping, only because we have the doors shut to keep everyone in our room? It's fricking SDog!! Not "ONE" of the dogs!! I told him the females couldn't possibly aim that close. Furthermore, my large male sleeps on the floor by the bedposts, so this is little Napoleon SDog trying to show his stuff again by pissing on my fucking bedpost where the other male sleeps!! I told DH that our dining room is ruined (wood floor) from SDog peeing in there dozens of times last year, but there was no way in hell I would tolerate SDog in our room without a diaper on. I actually felt bad for the stupid little fuck, so we would take his diaper off at night so he could air out. Now he goes and pisses in my bedroom!! His latest thing is to crawl UNDER my bed and get up by the headboard, right in the middle, so I can hear him breathing. No fucking way is he going under there with a diaper on!

I told DH that I thought it would be a great idea to teach SD13 some responsibility and let SDog sleep in her room every night. She could let him out in the morning, she could feed him, she could be with him 24/7 and keep an eye on him. She knows to change his diaper at dinnertime and let him out to pee. DH's first reply was, "Oh noooo, I don't think that's the best idea......" I told DH I was pretty damn tolerant of all of the filth in my house thus far that no one cleans up, but I was NOT having a pissing dog in my bedroom! He went on to say that ALL of the dogs have peed in there at one time or another. I told him the females have had accidents before because they HAD to go. None of them was BLATANTLY MARKING up against a pole, much like SDOG did in my dining room all last year!!! I told him either SD13 keeps SDog in her room, or SDog gets put in a crate every night, or it has a diaper on 24/7 (which is still pretty nasty, IMO.) Or I leave him in a bag on the train tracks...... Damnit all!! I am MAD!

Then DH sarcastically says he's going to pack and move out because he can't stand the nagging. I told him I wasn't nagging, I was merely reporting back to him what I got to see in the first few minutes that I arrived home. I was actually quite calm and nicely reported everything to him, to let him know. See a pattern here, DH? All three OF YOUR "PEOPLE" have fucked up and have been irresponsible, in varying degrees! DO something about it! Then he sends me a text about negativity and how men don't do well with it. Actually sent me a screenshot from a web article. It said that men like to "FIX" things. So, I wrote back...."Can you please fix my dirty sink, pay the large library fine and get the PEE off of my bedroom floor? Ahhhhhhh. Thanks I feel much better already." DH replied, "I knew you would."

WHY can't these morons be responsible? Just fuck me sideways already. :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop: SO FRUSTRATED WITH THE IRRESPONSIBILITY!!

~ Moon