I have just found this site and its so good to see so many people feel like I do!

His kids d16 s10 and the bm have caused so much c**p over the past 5 years we've been together.

I no longer see them, they are not welcome in my house, I really couldn't give two hoots about me being the adult anymore as the whole situation was making me ill tbh.

However, I had a thought the other day when buying oh's birthday card and seeing all the husband cards and I realised just how much I despise them when I thought if we ever got married I don't want them there, I tried to reason with myself but would rather never marry him (not that he'd ask lol) than have his kids there!!
It's made me really reflect on everything and I'm now not even sure if our relationship is worth the hassle, I think I've stumbled on a crossroads and have some big decision decisions to make :/