Lies BM tells

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Anyone care to share some BM lies?

Here is one: This business partner tells me BM approached him on FB and started hitting on him (she is 10 years older than he is) and told him:

1. She lives at this other address (fancy huge house) that is not hers (she lives in a dinky apartment around the corner from this faux address);

2. She drives a luxury car (nope);

3. My DH is the baby daddy of all of her crotch droppings- not true, DH only had one of her multiples with her, she has one by a few different men.

Classy, Barf Mother, classy.

Our BM likes to tell SS that

Our BM likes to tell SS that she will do things for him, take him places, etc and then never does. My favorite was when she got him to bring all of his combined bday money and xmas money to her house "so she could open a bank account for him".

When we asked him where his money was as he needed it for a trip he told us that BM had it and she was opening an account for him. We told him to get it back becuase he needed it.

Do you think she had it all? Nope.

Then a sob story from her about how she spends her money on him, blah, blah, blah

Oh that is just so sad...

Very sad. I felt bad

Very sad. I felt bad explaining to SS that it would make more sense for him to open an account at our house - you know, where he lives 26 days out of the month.

I also feel bad when he tells me how he's going to do XYZ with his mom this weekend. Then when we pick him up, I always ask how XYZ was and he says they didn't go.

Yep. "Momma was tired" "Momma

Yep. "Momma was tired" "Momma had to work instead" "Momma is poor"... Pssshhhtttt Lies

yes, well tell mama to get a

yes, well tell mama to get a freakin job, tell mama selling drugs is not a job, tell mama that she can't really refer to herself as a "poor single mother" when she only has you 4 days a month

LOLLLLLL exactly!!!! Yep.

LOLLLLLL exactly!!!! Yep. Same here.

The sad part is that it's so

The sad part is that it's so common. The BM in our situation said the same thing...plus told skids if they worked for her bf in his farm they'd get paid. They hauled and set fence posts, hauled and bailed hay, picked berries, fed cows, etc ALL summer....but when both boys wanted to take money from their bank about "mommy" had set up for them and was supposedly depositing their earnings (they never actually SAW the pay) and their bday and Christmas money, they didn't even know what bank it was at...so they asked their mom who said "I'll look into getting it out for you" ony to call DH and say "no they can't have it! They are saving for something else! (OSS wants a dirt bike to have at her house....the 8 days a month he is there and YSS wants to buy a pure bred dog for at the 'farm' for the 8 days a month he is there) You and hanging can just buy them what they want!" And wouldn't give the kids their passbooks....why? Because an account has never actually been set up. Because she and be 'keep a record" of what they earned and when they have enough they will buy it...yeah okay...you just called whining your car needs repairs and you don't have the money to fix it and want help, but you're going to cough up the dough when they want something.skids don't even know how much they have! She could tell them $100 after working all summer. These women make me sick

Here's the other funny thing

Here's the other funny thing she'll do. DH has a RO against her. She is allowed to call the house two times a week during a designated time. Sometimes, if SS will not be home, we'll ask him to call before he leaves. This is how the conversation goes:

If you don't call me at 7 pm, I'm calling the police on you.

SS usually comes downstairs frazzled and we tell him not to worry. Then, depending on her level of drunkeness, if she is boning anyone currently, etc - she may just go down to the police station and try and file a report. Cops have called DH before. DH says, SS isn't home, he's 14, he called her earlier. I'm not sure what she wants.

Police always tell DH he's done nothing wrong and not to worry about it.

Oh WOW! That is pretty

Oh WOW! That is pretty pathetic. Poor kid. No wonder we are all on here, these people are nuts!

Yep. Once again, story of my

Yep. Once again, story of my life with all the above.

Basically, they lie until they get their way and they lie TO get their way.

Honestly, pretty much every

Honestly, pretty much every word that comes out of BM's mouth is a lie, so I don't want to take up 15 pages of your blog lol. Seriously. Whatever she says to us, we just assume she's lying.

Yep. What is up with these

Yep. What is up with these broads? I mean every. single. word.

I am working late today = I am going bar hopping, don't want to deal with my own children right now

I cannot pay for the kids' food this month = I spent my money on things for myself (including drugs)

I might need to quit my job and file for support unless you give me more money = I am too lazy to continue being an active participant in the society (and it's harder to spend my extra time selling drugs and running around while I have an actual job)

I have something important to tell you = I want to tell you lies about SM in hopes that you guys break up

It's tough being a single mom = I was a bitch and never wanted to send the kids over to their dad's (so I can collect more CS money) and then I realized that I have to take them places

ugh

Sperm Grandhag: "I never

Sperm Grandhag: "I never said/did that!" CLick of microcassette recorder turning on - (Sperm Grandhag's voice saying exactly what she just claimed not to have said while she was on the witness stand in family court.) }:) }:) }:)

This happened on multiple occasions across several hearings.

Delicious. I likeeeeee.

Delicious. I likeeeeee. Time to send some recording devices over and see what is happening in Barf Land...

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