I've spent years feeling and made to feel like a horrible person because I don't nor have ever treated SD28 like she is royalty. I swear she is a sociopath (I'm not saying that just name calling, I really mean it she has all the symptoms). I'm not going back 20 years explaining everything to you but the short version is, we raised her BM was not in the picture, she has done just about everything imaginable that she shouldn't do, she does not understand boundaries, has no social skills, manipulates, lies, steals (the last thing she stole before moving was my daughters birthday card out of the mailbox from her Grandmother and took the money, found the card under her dresser after she moved out) this has happened several times over the years yet isn't even a dent into what all she has stolen.
I could go on and on, she now lives in another state (Thank God) but still gets under my skin. Her and her boyfriend are planning to visit us according to my hubby (I don't talk to her on the phone, he does), I'm trying to think of ways to make myself unavailable while they are here, her and my hubby puts on a show that they are real close but they refuse to be alone I guess because they do not know how to communicate, the last time we were all together I planned on going to my hotel room (we visited them) and resting and her boyfriend said he had things to do so I said well that will give you father daughter time, they actually went into a panic stuttering and all, it ended up my husband came back to the hotel with me and she went with her boyfriend, idk it's just effing weird! Lol
Sorry just needed to vent to people who understands!