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So proud of BD16

weekendwidow's picture

So with all of the shit hitting the fan regarding SS17 smoking pot and losing his car yada yada yada...my daughter has been quite engaged and attentive to the goings on. SHe's been watching it all unfold and I am so happy about that.

She was at a party yesterday. SHe came home early. I asked why. SHe said, "they had pot and I didn't want any part of that so me and a bunch of other people just left". I congratulated her on making a really great choice and I asked her, out of curiosity, why THAT was her choice. SHe said, "I'm not doing that. If we got caught, I'd lose my license for at least 6 months and worse than that...You'd kill me."

The fear of consequences is why my kids are on a better path than my skids who have never had any consequences. I refer often "The Lord of the Flies" when talking about kids w/ no boundaries. My BD has to read that over the summer for her senior year of English. She's going to finally get my reference.

I just felt the need to post something positive for a change. Bitching about my skids wears me out.

hereiam's picture

Good for you and good for your BD.

Kids should always have consequences and they should have a healthy fear of their parents.

Calypso1977's picture

wow, someone who parents their child! so refreshing!

proud of your daughter, but proud of you too!!!! you raised a good one!

Rags's picture

A good parent raising a child of character. Congratulations mama. Both you and your DD should both be very proud.

weekendwidow's picture

Thanks all! I am really proud and I told her to be extremely proud of herself. She did the right thing even when it was hard to do. Phew!