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Bf home from out of town for two days.. Won't have boys!

Mentalgirl48's picture

This is such a cluster fu**. My other posts talk about how the x insists on me taking their boys during his visit time when he is out of town.No visitation or custody schedule through the court.. She insists on Wednesday night through Sunday night... I said NO since he is not home. Hes been appeasing her by driving all the way hhome on those nights as she has been dropping them off anyway. So he gets home around 9pm they get dropped off after he gets home.. He spends about 2 hours with them before they go to bed then gets up and drives them to x house to catch bus in the morning. Then drives back to work. This daily routine puts 160 miles on my car every day.
Now he's off for two days and I would think that's the perfect opportunity to get his boys after school and spend more time with them right?. No.. As far as I know he won't be getting the boys and hasn't even asked the x if he can take them on his days off. So as of now the schedule still stands he drives 160 miles Wednesday through Sunday to keep the x schedule..
What in the fuck is happening here..
I totally confused.

twopines's picture

What's happening is he doesn't care that he and his ex are using you for their convenience. You can control your participation of it if you really want it to stop.

Orange County Ca's picture

YOU know what's wrong here!!!!

The next time he's at work you have all of your stuff removed from the house. When he returns from work you meet him out in front and tell him you've got to run to the grocery store.

You never look back. If you want to be nice leave a note. If he wants to drive you agree and when he gets out of the car at the grocery you lock the doors, slide over and drive off.

All of us here understand how you got yourself into this situation. Love. Well its gone now and if you're still here by the end of this coming weekend....well I'm not going to call you a name.