happy story... for once
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My ss2 called his dad tonight... well of course BM helped him. SO is working on the road. SS started asking for me and I guess got quite upset with SO because I wasn't there. He didnt understand why dad would not let him talk to me. I guess he actually screamed my name ar SO because he wanted to say hello. BM told SO for me to call so I did ss was so happy! For the first time I actually feel that I important in my skids lives.
BM underplays my role to just
BM underplays my role to just the gf all the time and it doesn't even matter to me now.
It is a wonderful feeling
It is a wonderful feeling isn't it?
SS did this to me last summer when BM was in the mood to be nice since she was dating. They called me twice while DH was gone.
It has now come to the point SS told me he was sad he couldn't mention me unless BM brought me up - which semi gets under my skin like when we went to my families and were on our way home she called and asked what he was doing and he said on his way home but refused to say where and tried to just get off the phone because he didn't want to hurt her feelings. Should be interesting when we go to see my brother over the summer which is 4 hours away.
True my stepkids dont talk
True my stepkids dont talk about everything that happens during their visits to us. Poor kids they had tk try to learn how to filter things. They dont tell their bm when we are having a lot of fun or when there is even a little tension in the house. They are careful not to say something that will set bm off. They didnt tell her of clothes i gave them. Or that i have my wedding gown (for church wedding with dh) ready in a box in the living room now. Cos they know itll make her go nuts.
I just hope we could all get along. I didnt come here to fight or anything.
Ive never spoke to bm or met her. She has sent me angry messages before but i never replied. The closest contact i had with was on the phone where she said a very mean thing to me but i held my tongue and gave the phone back to sd. But this story is for another post.
It is wonderful. It also
It is wonderful. It also takes a weight off bscause all that really matters to me is how the skids see me. She on the other hand can see me however she wants. Her and I both know now that I am more then just the gf.