The issue... BM txted BF last week to ask if SD could come over to drop something off for her dad. BF replied with now that our daughter expects it sure but I would appreciate if you kept your time to your time as do I. BM has also made a point of asking for the skids on BF's days to visit with her parents the day before the arrive. BM's parents live 6 hrs away you would think this would be a planned thing. She also looses her S^&T when BF says no sorry we already have plans (we actually do have plans). She has also asked for SD to go see a movie 2 days into BF's days. We have repeatedly explained to her we don't find it ok for the children to be thrown back and forth and not follow a set schedule for their well being. We have also been told by SD's "feelings Dr." that we need to keep a regular schedule where the kids know what is going to happen and where they are going as per a set schedule
B. They come to our house in BM's clothes and are returned in those same freshly washed clothes... Maybe if BF had left with something other then just HIS CLOTHES this might be an argument not to mention you have yet to pay ANY CS. Guess what... those are BF's clothes HE BOUGHT THEM via the CS he actually pays.
That all being said BM wrote us a trade off email and finished with... you have to be careful and aware of what you say infront of SD she hears everything. Things I don't think a little girl should hear... she couldn't tell us what it was.
Take your own advice princess stop dragging your kid down! Ugggg sorry big vent
bahahaha this is true I was really tempted to use a very useful letter I saw posted here with tons of research about sticking to a schedule and a routine... but yes she is a nut!! And saying I think you BM is dumb... definitely tempting. What is also tempting is Newsflash sweetheart everything in your house and everything you dress your kids in is dads... oh im sorry im a little off 20% of your kids clothing it still isn't yours but it is your 2 exbf's you have had in an 8 month span... that both the kids have met... oh the things I would love to say!
A. She cant do anywhere she
A. She cant do anywhere she wants at our house
The issue... BM txted BF last week to ask if SD could come over to drop something off for her dad. BF replied with now that our daughter expects it sure but I would appreciate if you kept your time to your time as do I. BM has also made a point of asking for the skids on BF's days to visit with her parents the day before the arrive. BM's parents live 6 hrs away you would think this would be a planned thing. She also looses her S^&T when BF says no sorry we already have plans (we actually do have plans). She has also asked for SD to go see a movie 2 days into BF's days. We have repeatedly explained to her we don't find it ok for the children to be thrown back and forth and not follow a set schedule for their well being. We have also been told by SD's "feelings Dr." that we need to keep a regular schedule where the kids know what is going to happen and where they are going as per a set schedule
B. They come to our house in BM's clothes and are returned in those same freshly washed clothes... Maybe if BF had left with something other then just HIS CLOTHES this might be an argument not to mention you have yet to pay ANY CS. Guess what... those are BF's clothes HE BOUGHT THEM via the CS he actually pays.
That all being said BM wrote us a trade off email and finished with... you have to be careful and aware of what you say infront of SD she hears everything. Things I don't think a little girl should hear... she couldn't tell us what it was.
Take your own advice princess stop dragging your kid down! Ugggg sorry big vent
You just described our BM,
You just described our BM, WORD for WORD.
And you make an excellent point!
^^omg tog you are spot on
^^omg tog you are spot on with this^^. This is 100% what we've observed also. It is NUTS.
bahahaha this is true I was
bahahaha this is true I was really tempted to use a very useful letter I saw posted here with tons of research about sticking to a schedule and a routine... but yes she is a nut!! And saying I think you BM is dumb... definitely tempting. What is also tempting is Newsflash sweetheart everything in your house and everything you dress your kids in is dads... oh im sorry im a little off 20% of your kids clothing it still isn't yours but it is your 2 exbf's you have had in an 8 month span... that both the kids have met... oh the things I would love to say!