An I the only one??
I know a lot of us on her vent about our skids but am I the only one that REALLY can't stand my sd?? Sometimes I feel as if I am. Trust me I wish it could be normal I wish I looked forward to seeing her cause then I wouldn't have to act like a friggin different person every other weekend. It's so annoying. And if you haven't noticed you may see more post from me on certain days and typically it's when we have her or the day before we get her lol. We have her tonight and suppose to tomorrow but DH just informed me that he isn't Pickering her up tomorrow :))). It's awful. When we first got her tonight I was ok. And then she started being alllllll over DH and staring at me while doing so. And I just had a total mood swing. I'm trying to snap out of it because he went to drop her off at BM and we aren't picking her up tomorrow. So I'm sd free til Wednesday 
unfortunately it seems to come quickly
She sounds threatened by you.
She sounds threatened by you. She is all over your dh because she is trying to show you that he's her daddy and loves her more. Maybe she needs some one on one time with her dad and he needs to reassure her that your presence in his life doesn't mean his love for her will go away
Maybe just allow her to be with her dad as much as possible during her stay...reward yourself with going to the spa or seeing friends...doing something you enjoy.
This way you will have something to look forward to whenever sd visits
I totally feel the same way.
I totally feel the same way. I find myself on here being pretty blunt as is and yet I don't say it all.
The thing is when she is
The thing is when she is around I keep to myself I'm jot all over my DH I talk to him here and there but I do my own thing so why she feels the need I don't get it. And I've never showed anything that would make her feel like I'm trying to be mom cause I'm alset with that. There's no way she should feel that way. And this may sound silly but why would she feel that way with me but if mom and dad were together she wouldn't be. What's the difference?? I could see if I'm taking him from her but as I said I do my own thing. I may be in the same house at times but the majority of the time it's the 2 of them and in in another room. Dinner time we are all together. She can get over it
How old is she? Unless she's
How old is she? Unless she's under ten, it's a little odd for her to be all over him. He needs to explain to her that clinginess is not appropriate after a certain age.
Oh no, certainly not the only
Oh no, certainly not the only one.
I get sick and stressed every Thursday night and SKID weekend.
SS is ok, SD - I cannot stand.
She also is super clingy and wanting to be all over daddy like a freaking rash.
She is stb13 and a large girl (taller and wider than me)
But she's still his baby girl in his eyes.
Gross.
Take a picture of SD hanging
Take a picture of SD hanging off daddeeee and show him what they look like. I think another poster did that and it worked.
And she says stupid baby
And she says stupid baby stuff like "I need to go pee"
Announce it to the world why don't you?
Like we all need to know???
Even my 7yo knows better than that!
LOL I sometimes will say I
LOL I sometimes will say I need to pee but it is usually if it is just myself and DD4 (because it gets her thinking about going too) or my mom because she is usually blocking my way to the bathroom or someone is in it when I am at her house. I swear she forgets that since I gave birth I can no longer hold it.
LOL - I get what you are
LOL - I get what you are saying, and I guess there are times it's ok, and times it's not.
Like we are all walking in to a restaurant, don't announce it like that. Just go, or say "I need to use the restroom"
Just use some manners SOMETIMES!!! (SD not you LMAO)
Yep DD4 says she needs to go
Yep DD4 says she needs to go to the potty. Of course she has a speech problem and bathroom is too big a word sometimes. ROTFLMAO I figured out to say pee to DD instead of potty or bathroom to get things moving. In my mom's case the last thing she wants to do is have her 43 yr old kid pee on her carpet. I would make her clean it up too. Crazy woman has a half bath in the master and won't let anyone including my stepdad use it.
I did have a shepherd that would pee every time I said go potty. LOL
We do use manners on occasion around my house.
She does the same thing. I
She does the same thing. I went to go help her with her bathing suit and she covered up and said no. She wanted daddy. I went and got him. He walks in she in covers and lets him out it on her like wtf.
Every other weekend is no big
Every other weekend is no big deal. The kid gets to see her dad four days a month. Go out with friends when she is there. I would love to only have ss every other weekend.
That would be a dream for
That would be a dream for me!!! Instead of every bleeding day. 365 days of the same crap.
Nope, not the only one. I'm
Nope, not the only one. I'm quickly approaching a ridiculous level of resentment and hatred of my SS11 becaus of all the impact he wields on my household and our lives. I never miss him when he's not here (which isn't much) and I loathe the days he returns.
My struggle is how to get a handle on my emotions towards this kid. That's why I'm here...and in therapy, and on drugs, and drink occasionally, and chain smoke like its my job. I NEVER IN A GAZILLION years could have foreseen the impact and effects ONE YOUNG HUMAN could have on my life...and I'm perpetually stunned, angry, guilty...ANGRY...
No dear, you are certainly NOT alone. That's why these boards exist.
I may be the only person that
I may be the only person that can't stand a skid that really has done nothing to me.
He's grown, does not live with us. I rarely see him, etc. etc.
But just as a human being - even if he had no relationship to me at all I would have no use for him. He's an often violent, drunk. What's to like?